Thursday, June 28, 2012

Who are those they's?

I have friends on both sides of the health care debate. They hate each other, with blood-curdling passion. Each says, about the other, at least these five things: "they" are (1) stupid, (2) hypocritical, (3) dishonest, (4) violent, and (5) cynical about the poor. The insults diverge (Socialists, Limbaugh ...), but not right away. I won't hide my position; it's the same as the USCCB's.

This kind of angry polarization is destructive for everybody. I think of pro-lifers, who usually aim for 51%. You can make short-term tactical gains with 51%, but long-term strategic changes require 68%. Divisive rhetoric will never get there.

Every legislator and activist in the nation should examine Kevin Durant's approach. I don't mean his lay-ups, although that's good too. He manages to be incredibly ambitious, and still be a gentleman, even facing LeBron James.

So what's the impact of today's Supreme Court's decision on the Dream Act? No direct impact. But when anger and bitterness and hatred go up, the chances for the Dream Act go down. Generosity and curiosity lead to hospitality; fear and greed lead to hostility. Tone matters.

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